Why you don't need a sex plan with your partner

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Do you know that the economic situation of things can make you forget about your marital commitment?
In their to make enough for the home, most couples forget or rather forgo their sex life, but the funniest thing is that you can never make enough. While some will make a sex time table just to make sure that they don't fail to do their part of the bargain. Actually, this doesn't make sense and sex based on a time table can never be enjoyed. Just tear the time table and talk to your partner right now.

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Below are five (5) strong reasons why you don't need a sex plan in your home:

First, sex between the man and wife is mostly referred to as love making. Love making has no business being predicted, it does not need a manual, it is beautiful, it is the mature expression of love by two individuals. Love making comes with warmth understanding, tenderness, above all, it is original. It is not only the most important part of marriage but it is one of it. It plays an important role in strengthening the relationship between the husband and wife both physically and emotionally.

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Second, sex serves two purpose for humans; for enjoyment and for procreation. This means that sex for pleasure is first considered by humans before procreation. Married people should learn to differentiate the two types of sex and focus on that which they want.

Third, are you aware that the female body needs time to respond to sexual stimulation than the male body- the male body is like a power socket, it is not difficult to be turned on. The female body needs a period of soft intense foreplay before she can be ready.

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Fourth,do you know that the clitoris is the main trigger for the woman. Its manipulation, plus vulvar, thigh, breast and lip stimulation are extremely important to the foreplay period. The problem is that the over zealous husband isn't patient enough to do all these. He actually thinks a half baked stimulation will do the magic. The most important thing is to make the home atmosphere a very loving one. This is because, it is very hard for a wife to quarrel with her husband and then respond to him sexually.

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Fifth, for some couples it takes time to get their sexual life right and some just get it right from the go. Whatever the situation may be, communication and understanding each other is very important. However, make sure your family finances are in order if you really want to enjoy your home.

With the five (5) reasons above, I don't see reasons why love making should be planned for, just let it happen

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17 Comments

  1. Sex is a natural thing, it doesn't need to be planned out. Just go with the flow!

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    1. That is why keeping a sex timetable either on the wall or in your mind won't help you. Thanks

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  2. I am glad that I have never had a sex plan in place. Always just when the mood struck.

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    1. Sex plan makes sex boring. Actually, it makes it a routine instead of an act of pleasure and fun. Thanks Marie

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  3. Really informative, I read this article first time

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  4. I have never met anyone who has to schedule their sex life. It must be tireseome to do so.

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  5. I would never want to plan it out nor put it on a calendar, great tips!

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  6. Sex is the natural need of boddy, it can't be scheduled... I never planned or scheduled.... (World in Eyes)

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  7. I agree with you. When is the best time for sex? depends on the both of you. So there should be no timetable.

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  8. Sex between couples should be natural. If it's not happening naturally, there might be something else going on possibly.

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  9. Interesting take on sex, something I really didn't think of as I always think sex should be natural.

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  10. Such an interesting take thank you for sharing this info. have a great day

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  11. Unfortunately, when the kids were little, we had to plan according to their schedule. Now, my husband and I are free to do whatever we want. Very interesting post.

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  12. Sex is a natural thing for couples, so planning it out just buys more time.

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  13. I hear married people have time tables,because of that I've already created a time table in my mind.
    But thank you for this amazing post

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  14. I dint know that sex can be scheduled even in married life. It will be tiresome surely. Agreed with you love should happen naturally.

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  15. Agreed. No need for a strict planning for this

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